don't let your anger ignite any fuses you can't blow out kris. just close the bedroom door and come sit in front of me and let me talk you down from the high ledge you are perched on...she is not use to living alone and with the hectic pace of the move and all her stability thrown into boxes and bags like that did alot to unsettle her. it is not your fault she can't find or remember where things are. you did what you could when you were not working at the super 8 to get this done and over with. you warned her and asked if you could start preparing for the chaos but she was in denial and declined. i know it makes you upset that she got mad at you for suggesting that you guys go thru her things like her closet and make a goodwill pile and get rid of stuff before you brought stuff into the new place. and then you would go to work and work your ass off and come home and she would be mad not at you but herself because she just couldn't seem to get it that it was going to take soo long. you did what you could and more.
i think you know inside that how she would roll her eyes and insult you when you would suggest getting rid of a roll of christmas wrapping paper was a condition of the insanity. but it still brought tears to your eyes. even though you would get up at 6 am to load the truck while she was showering so you could make a couple trips before you clocked into work and the multiple back and forth with your sprained ankle and back after work were too much for even yourself. she has never thanked you. when you guys would swing by mcdonalds for lunch after doing all her work for her she always made you buy your own food..always. i know how hard you worked and i know how hurt you are living with someone who doesn't appreciate you but goodness will come your way. besides maybe you are working off a little karma? so why are you upset about ebay? you know how she is? blah blah blah i know each listing takes at least 20 to 25 minutes of your time and you have done over 300 without her acknowledging it. she has given you maybe 50 dollars in cash when she brought in 3,000 dollars within a couple weeks. she keeps telling you she is going to pay you and after this long you know it is not going to happen. just accept the fact it ain't going to happen. you look at something that hasn't sold in 3 months and hint that it might look good on you and she shakes her head and takes it out of your hands like it would bankrupt her and it is listed at $18 dollars that should let you know she has isssues. she makes you buy anything you want to wear and there is no discount if anything she raises the price. your food card benefits are 200 month you do the dishes and cook food. now she is mad at you cause the shipping rates went up at the post office like you did it intentionally. hell just be calm and let her learn how to take the pics and go thru the process of listing an auction. just be nice about it teach her something before you walk off into the sunset so she has something to do with her time besides put you down k?
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